Living Spontaneously

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

4. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep,they always think about the girl they truly care about ..

5. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

6. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

7. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

8. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

9. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”…… so true.

10. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

11. Guys love their moms.

12. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

13. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

14. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

15. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

16. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

17. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

18. Guys are very open about themselves.

19. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

20. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

21. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

22. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice … very true.

23. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

24. Guys keep secrets that girls tell them.

25. Guys think too much.

26. Guys fantasies are unlimited.

27. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weightdoes! … very true.

28. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

29. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

30. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

31. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

32. Guys hate girls who overreact.

33. Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships.

a cousin of mine sent a unique mail to me, something lighten my heart after what had happen over the years and it did knock some senses into my head :) an email that i rearly get … so this one i dedicate to my girlfriends and cousins ( you know who you are ) and especially to my SISTERS, we may have bad moments and good ones too, but at the end of the day .. we still are family and no matter what, we will still annoy each other :p. through thick and thin ” i will still love you “

what it said in the mail …

A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.

“Don’t forget your Sisters,” she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. “They’ll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.

“Remember that ‘Sisters’ means ALL the women… your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too.

“You’ll need other women. Women always do.”

‘What a funny piece of advice!’ the young woman thought. ‘Haven’t I just gotten married? Haven’t I just joined the couple-world? I’m now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!’

But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life.

After years of living in this world, here is what I’ve learned:


THIS SAYS IT ALL:

Time passes. 
Life happens. 
Distance separates. 
Children grow up. 
Jobs come and go. 
Love waxes and wanes. 
Men don’t do what they’re supposed to do. 
Hearts break.

Parents die. 
Colleagues forget favors. 
Careers end. 
BUT………

Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you.

A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.

When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley’s rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley’s end.

Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you.

Or come in and carry you out.

Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life!

The world wouldn’t be the same without women, and neither would I.

When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead.

Nor did we know how much we would need each other. Every day, we need each other still.

don’t stress about things you have no control over. sometimes what is … just is.

don’t waste your days in emotional disarray over a negetive situation that you can be in control of. (remember, you always have at least three options - move on, stay where you are and just deal with it or turn a negetive situation into a positive one.)

don’t try to fit in with the ’ RIGHT ’ crowd when it feels too forced. the best friendships are the ones that are natural and easy and comfortable and kind. find one of those.

don’t be part of a prejudice against anyone. be colour blind and be open minded to the millions who have diverse beliefs and varying backgrounds.

don’t worry about your future. it will unfold slowly enough and give you plenty of time to help you decide … all the where’s and when’s and why’s.

don’t feel like you have to put up with people who are rude or obnoxious. always take the higher ground when you can, but if you need a release, take comfort in quietly thinking to yourself, ’ im’ really glad i’m not you … ’ and leave it at that.

don’t forget, though that some people have emotional or physical things going on beneath the surface, and if we knew what they were, we’d cut them a lot more slack.

don’t ever forget that reckless behaviour and cars are a deadly mix. people forget that every year and when they do, it’s often the last thing they’ll forget.

don’t be afraid to ask advice. there are people who love you and care about you and would love to help you in any way they can. be brave … and ask.

don’t be obsessive about your body and your looks. you’re growing and changing and you are a work in progress and a miracle in the making. the simple truth in the looks department is, some people are always going to seem better and others will always seem worse. it’s okay. we’re all different . that’s pretty much that way the world works.

don’t stop there. it’s the same with money. there are the have-nots, that have-a-lots, and everybody in between. when your perspective gets lost and you’re fretting about not having something ’ everyone else ’ has. remember some can’t afford thae cost of anything.

don’t let cynical people transfer their cynicism off on you. in spite of all it’s problems, it is still a pretty amazing world and there are lots of truly wondeful people spinning around on this planet.

and don’t ever forget - the teen years can definitely be challenging, but if you work it right … they’re also some of the most memorable, most fun and most amazing times of life.